Vijaya Sundaram

Poet, Musician, Teacher, and Amateur Visual Artist

Mother’s Day (or is it Mothers’ Day) Rant (a small one!)

Mother’s Day (or is it Mothers’ Day) Rant (a small one!)
©By Vijaya Sundaram
May 12, 2013

(Cross-posted on Facebook as well)

I dislike Mother’s Day AND Father’s Day. It’s a totally made-up construct, a way to single people out, and a way to make some feel left out. It’s a way to create expectations and crush them for those who have them. What’s the point?
I have no expectations. I love being a mom, and every day is Mother’s Day for me. I did tease S just a tiny bit today, and W too, but she picked some lilacs for me (and promised to make me a card, because she wants to do so, but had no time), and so far, he’s done nothing but teach music online all day.
Do I feel bad?
No!
I suppose I could pull a guilt trip on them, but I’m not interested. It’s silly.
Plus, I have no stomach for cheap sentimentality.  Sorry, I know this day is sacrosanct for many. I guess I’m just rebellious, and traditions be damned! 

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